From an unexpected diagnosis to pioneering surgery: Paul Buxton shares his prostate cancer journey
At our latest Buddies Meeting, Paul Buxton spoke openly about diagnosis, difficult decisions, treatment and recovery, offering a powerful reminder of why awareness, early checks and open conversation matter.
At the latest Prostate Cancer Gibraltar Buddies Meeting, members heard from Paul Buxton, who generously shared his prostate cancer journey in his own words. His story was honest, practical and deeply reassuring. It was also a reminder that prostate cancer is not always found because of obvious symptoms. Sometimes, it is picked up while doctors are investigating something else entirely.
This meeting also carried special significance because Paul’s treatment formed part of a major milestone made possible through the support of Kusuma Trust, Prostate Cancer Gibraltar and other sponsors, helping to expand what can be offered locally to men in Gibraltar.
A story that resonated across the room
Paul spoke with warmth and clarity about the journey from first noticing something was not quite right, through investigation, diagnosis, surgery and recovery. The atmosphere in the room reflected exactly what the Buddies Meetings are for: sharing experience, reducing isolation and helping others feel better informed and less alone.
An unexpected beginning
Paul explained that, looking back, the first thing he noticed was gradual weight loss over many months. He had always been active, worked hard and initially put it down to age, work and the summer heat. But after continuing to lose weight, he went to see his doctor. What followed was a series of tests for what first appeared to be an overactive thyroid. During that process, an MRI scan led to an unexpected discovery: small tumours and the strong possibility of prostate cancer.
What made his account so powerful was its honesty. He had not set out expecting a prostate cancer diagnosis. Like many men, he had no obvious warning signs that would have made him think that was the issue. His story is an important reminder that prostate cancer is not always accompanied by symptoms in the way people might expect.
Moving quickly from uncertainty to decisions
Once the scan raised concern, things moved quickly. Paul described being called in to discuss the findings and then undergoing a biopsy soon afterwards. He spoke candidly about that experience too, including the fact that it was not pleasant. Even so, his account never lost sight of the bigger picture: getting answers, understanding the options and making decisions with the support of professionals and loved ones.
He was then offered something extraordinary: the opportunity to undergo a new form of robotic surgery. He also heard about other treatment possibilities and took the time he needed to ask questions, speak with family and think carefully about what felt right for him. In the end, he chose surgery and moved forward with determination.
Treatment, recovery and perspective
Paul also spoke openly about the reality of recovery. He described the practical side of the days after surgery, the discomfort involved and the patience needed during the first stage of healing. That honesty mattered. It gave the room a realistic picture without taking away hope. His message was not that recovery is effortless, but that progress is possible and that support makes a difference.
Reassuringly, he shared that follow-up results after surgery were positive and that his experience overall had left him feeling fortunate, grateful and very aware of how important timely intervention can be. Within a relatively short period, he was already getting back to normal daily activities and regaining confidence in everyday life.
Why his story matters
Paul’s story resonated because it reflected so many elements that men and families recognise: uncertainty, fear, difficult choices, medical conversations, practical recovery and the need for reassurance. It also highlighted what can happen when awareness, medical expertise, local capability and community support come together.
At Prostate Cancer Gibraltar, we are deeply grateful to Paul for speaking so openly. Personal accounts like his help others feel less alone, encourage earlier conversations and reinforce a message that sits at the heart of our work: early detection saves lives.
Know the message. Share the message.
If you are over 50, or over 45 with a family history, speak to your GP about PSA testing. Awareness, conversation and early action can make a life-changing difference.